There are problems in every relationship. One can argue that opposites attract. But what if I told you that famous quote is not accurate.
Now before I get into the negatives. There have been many cases where couples do work and are nothing like each other. Alas, those things are very much fixable. Lets take for instance the woman is clean and likes to keep things tidy. However the man leaves things around as if a tornado came through. This is an example of something fixable.
A lot of people find attraction with appearance first. Which is totally viable. However, if that’s the only reason you decided to date someone then you might as well be single as a one dollar bill. If both sides can’t communicate or either the male or female hears something in one ear and out the other, then it is inevitably disastrous.
Communication is key. That’s been said a lot but not put to use most of the time. Especially in the age of technology and staring of phones. Talking takes a backseat and Instagram is at the forefront. Ready to mingle.
When the change in connecting becomes greater only then will the benefits be reaped. Its important to understand where both are coming from. Especially what pisses you off because the best way to make love conquer is to expose the bad.
With that being said. Look at each other and think of ways to better establish a concrete relationship. Then you’ll go from together but not really to together really really.
